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Becky Lindfield

from edna - Friday, June 13, 2008
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Wondering What Happened to Becky Lindfield?

I'm a relative of Becky Christlieb who joined the Family in the early days. I've been trying to do research on what happened to her as I haven't seen her for over 40 years. I know from what I've read that she married Arthur Lindfield, AKA "King Arthur." She, along with Arthur, wrote many of the Mo Letter chapters under the publication "King Arthur's Nights," along with David and Maria Berg. It seems she had a fairly high place in the organization, may have been very influential, and had many children with Arthur Lindfield, and possibly other men as well.

I would like to find out about her and her children, their names, their stories - whether or not the children are still part of COG, and how they are today. The latest information I have is that Becky and Arthur are still together and living in India, heading up the Family Care Foundation there.

My concern is for Becky's children. Her parents both have passed away in the last several years, without ever making contact with her again, to my understanding. When Becky joined the Family they were cut off from contact with her or their grandchildren.

Any information would be helpful, even if anyone could simply point me in the direction of getting futher information. I don't wish to invade her privacy with personal contact - I'm just concerned about how her children have turned out and where they are today.

Thanks everyone for any help you can provide me. Please contact me via email so I will know there is a response.

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from from someone who knows
Monday, June 16, 2008 - 14:51


Someone passed on your post to me and I wanted to comment—for one, you are not a relative of the Christlieb or Lindfield family. If you were, you would know that Becky’s mother is still very much alive.

As for a couple of your other comments—"without ever making contact with her again, to my understanding. When Becky joined the Family they were cut off from contact with her or their grandchildren." Your understanding is flawed as this is also not true. Becky has kept in close touch with her parents during the time that she has been a Family member. If you were a relative you would know that.

So who exactly are you and what are your motives for posting this? Concern for the children? Do you even know them?
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From cheeks
Monday, June 16, 2008, 20:19

I think the key is "I am doing research." If she was genuinely a relative she would say I am looking for whomever, as I am whatever to them. We looked for my Hubby's Dad for ten years and I never said I am doing research on my husbands father.
I think she is looking for a book deal.(reply to this comment
from Phoenixkidd
Monday, June 16, 2008 - 14:11


Knew them way back in 1994 through 1996 in Santa Ana, CA, I am sure their kids are just fine, Gaby left around 1994, but don't know if the other's left. Out of all cult members I can think of Becky is one of the nicest people I know of and was such an encouragement to me.  people can talk Sh** about some Family members but there are those that really left an impression on me of understanding and caring individuals.

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From edna
Thursday, June 19, 2008, 14:15


Thanks for your reply.  Yes, Becky always was an impressive person - so beautiful, kind and thoughtful.  Contrary to what two others posted here as replies to my inquiry, I AM a relative of the Christliebs, although we have been out of touch for many years.  I have no ulterior motives, no book deal pending - I could care less.  It's just that Becky has been on my mind of late and I wonder how she is and where she is today.  I know her father passed away recently and yes I do know her mother is alive.  I mis-wrote when I said her parents were both gone.  My apologies.  Rather than inquiring of Avinall (her mother) or other relatives, because it's still a touchy subject with them, I thought I'd use these resources to perhaps find out how she is today. 

Thanks again for your kind response.(reply to this comment

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