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from chris81 - Friday, January 23, 2004
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Looking For Jay and Rose

I'm looking for Jay and Rose. They were "Sheperds" at a victor home in Pheniox, AZ. I don't know much about them, execpt that Jay is tall with dark hair, and Rose has wavy hair. They have a Daughters named Feli and Angela, and a son named Jonathan.

Anyway, hit me back if you have any leeds.Tks

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from Isislively
Wednesday, August 10, 2005 - 22:29

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My mom is in contact with Jay and Rose. I could have her give me some info, if she will. Might help to know who you are, though. Email me at isislively@msn.com if you'd like more info.
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from MeccaM74
Wednesday, April 28, 2004 - 23:41

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Rose is Feli's mom from her marriage to Big-Vy, I am not sure if that is the way you spell it. He's been out of the group for many years now, I used to know his legal name but I can't remember it, you know how they worked so hard not to let us remember legal names! :-p
Just to clarify, this Jay was not the one involved in the the Judge Ward case, it was a different person.
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From MeccaM74
Wednesday, April 28, 2004, 23:42

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Santiago is the kids you guys are thinking about, Rose's kid. He was also from her marriage to BigVy.(reply to this comment
from chokehold
Tuesday, February 10, 2004 - 14:51

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Are Jay and Rose the Paul and Rose from the Justice Ward Ruling, Paul being the guy who raped a 9 year old and Rose being the woman who was woken up by the child's screams and did nothing to help?
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From moon beam
Thursday, April 29, 2004, 06:03

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I have to clarify this. Paul(creep) was an Indian national and was a single in the home in pondicherry. Rose (italian) was married to someone else. I don't recall him. Paul and rose were not a couple.(reply to this comment
From chris81
Saturday, February 14, 2004, 23:38

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I don't know if that was them, it shure sounds like them,but I just knew them for a little over a year, in Arz. They went by Jay and Rose when I knew them. I bet they changed thier name after thier first offense. I bet that their is over a hundred people who would like to be alone in a room with them. (reply to this comment

from no
Tuesday, February 03, 2004 - 23:30

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Thanks everyone for your comments I still need a current address. If anyone can help me you know how to find me.

NO

P.S. If there is a way to find them with just their legal names let me know.

P.S.S.If you happen to be "Jay" or "Rose" and have been reading this article send me an email. I just want to tell you how much I enjoyed our time in Phoenix,and if you are to much of a chicken *#* to write then I'll see you on judgement day, and good luck trying to hide from HIM!
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From 2121
Tuesday, May 06, 2008, 12:57

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If the Rose you are referring to was also known as Cindy or Delilah she is living in Graham, Washington and is married to Phil (Sloan) Salazar. If you contact me back I can find an exact address for you. I have a lot of questions about her that you may be able to answer.(reply to this comment

From ChrisG
Wednesday, February 04, 2004, 20:45

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I will find out if they are in S.F and let you know(reply to this comment
from exister
Tuesday, January 27, 2004 - 16:11

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Do you want to hit them back?
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from Nancy
Tuesday, January 27, 2004 - 15:57

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If you do find them, let us know where. I'd personally like to send them my regards, especially Rose.

I would be careful, though, those two are shady characters responsible for all sorts of abuse. Jay is Rose's second, third or fourth husband. She has children from numerous men and slept with even more. She loved to lay around having sex and popping out babies while she participated in some of the most horrific abuse in Mexico. She's like a female Jabba the Hut. Do let us know if you find her. We must let her know we remember her.
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From lacy
Thursday, April 29, 2004, 08:15

Average visitor agreement is 5 out of 5Average visitor agreement is 5 out of 5Average visitor agreement is 5 out of 5Average visitor agreement is 5 out of 5Average visitor agreement is 5 out of 5(Agree/Disagree?)

Oh my God! I lived with Rose in Thailand and you are so right about her. She is a freak! She was horrible to us kids. She was also really into verbal abuse. Making me sit for four hours at a time listening to her tell me that I was a worse than mene case and that I was colder and harder then a rock and that God was going to have to use an even harder rock to break me, even if it meant that God would have to kill me. etc. My mom was trying to get us out of that home by writing this guy in England and asking him for money to help us leave. Rose was the shepherdess and made a rule that no one was allowed to send mail or go to the post office except her so when she bumped into my mom one day in the post office ( my mom was supposed to be witnessing) she had her sit in front of the entire home while Rose screamed at her. Rose also went thru all the mail when it came in so when the money did arrive from England Rose took it for herself, saying "God can't bless disobedience".

I was 13 at the time and she kept trying to put me on the home's "sharing schedule"! At least I had enough strength to refuse over and over. She was horrible. Isn't her eldest daughter Lisa, still in the Fam? Out of curiosity, when you find them what are you going to do?

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From Nancy
Thursday, April 29, 2004, 10:14

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Yeah, I've said before that I know what I'm talking about. I don't point fingers unless I'm damn sure, and this witch Cynthia Phillips is a monster!!! What would I do? I would probably be motivated to file a proceeding in federal court for her abuses. I know I could make a case. Just let me know where she is!(reply to this comment
From Siolo
Tuesday, January 27, 2004, 21:26

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Female Jabba the Hut.. Hee, hee nice one Nancy!(reply to this comment
From exister
Tuesday, January 27, 2004, 18:10

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Are we talking about that creepy Rose that was a midwife? Unfortunately she delivered many of our younger siblings.(reply to this comment
From Holon
Wednesday, January 28, 2004, 08:01

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wrong Rose exister,that rose didnt have any daughters just sons.I never thought she was creepy at all, I really liked her and thought she was very sweet. My parents were going to fly here to Greece to deliver my sister but she came 6 weeks premature.And I know for a fact that at least one of her sons posts on here, I doubt you would like someone saying that your mother was creepy for no apparent reason.(reply to this comment
From Nancy
Wednesday, January 28, 2004, 10:19

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I always thought she was nice, too, but there are always those who know her better. Exister did live with her. Her sons, though, were certainly good people. I adored them. Do you know which one passed away last year? It wasn't Peter was it?(reply to this comment
From Holon
Wednesday, February 04, 2004, 06:44

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I dont know Nancy, I hadent heard anything about that, I know it wasnt Gabe because I hear from his wife from time to time and I just got an e-mail from them about there new baby.But now that you said that , I realize that I havent talked to Jason in about a year so I dont know. (reply to this comment
From Nancy
Wednesday, February 04, 2004, 10:12

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It wasn't Jason. I heard from him about it. I fear it was dear Peter. What a charming boy, at least when I knew him.(reply to this comment
From night_raver
Monday, February 16, 2004, 00:57

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The individual is the oldest son, Samuel.(reply to this comment
From It wasn't Peter
Wednesday, February 04, 2004, 10:15

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I believe the details are posted here under the section "In Remembrance" (reply to this comment
From Nancy
Tuesday, January 27, 2004, 23:10

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No, not that one. That was Servant's wife. They lived in that border home all those years. Their sons are good people.

The Rose we're talking about had long stringy dirty blond hair. She was almost always knocked up. She lived in the Monterrey TC, then Jay arrived from CA, and they moved to Guadalajara. Her son is Jonathan, the guy they wrote that publication at the HCS about. I think it was called Rotten Apples. Poor guy! They tortured him for being "cool" and singing the Beatles song Yesterday. Then they sent him to LA with his mother, Rose. She also had a son named Andres. Feli wasn't her daughter. She had nine kids, almost all from different men. She was the one having sex in the toddler room with that tall, skinny creepy guy, Tim, at least until Jay arrived. Yuck! Just thinking about that dumpy witch makes my skin crawl. She was pure evil to the core! She was responsible for a lot of suffering. So, ironic that she would end up with a man as wicked as she is. May they both burn in the hell of obscurity, as the people they totured as children create beautiful lives for themselves.(reply to this comment

From exister
Wednesday, January 28, 2004, 11:33

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Skinny, creepy Tim was the "go to guy" for the shepherds at the Monterrey TC. Because of his height he was always involved in physically restraining the teenage boys who were beaten with a wooden stick. If anyone has his real name please post it here.(reply to this comment
from ChrisG
Tuesday, January 27, 2004 - 13:07

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Jay and Rose were in San Diego in 2001, and are most likely still there. I was still in TF back then, and there were like eight homes in SD, and theirs was one of them. All the "PR" homes were there, including the home with the Family's 800 number (which probably can be found on the Family website). If I were you, I would call the 800 number, say you're interested in a "Bible study" with Jay, and they will most likely hook you up.
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From Havoc
Monday, February 02, 2004, 00:55

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Jay and Rose are living in San Fransico right now, and they go by their legal names, Phil and Cindy. I know various ways to contact them if anyone is truly interested. I don't know how many of you are actually looking for them, or if you just want to sit around dredging up bad times.

When I knew them they seemed to be pretty okay people, a little intense, but nothing horrific. Then again I know plenty of adults that made a lot of teens lives miserable, who now seem to have a very nice "decent moral citizen" cover, lol.

Anyways if anyone is interested just contact me. And also, if Feli is not their daughter, who's is she? I always kind of wondered about that, cuz she was quite different.

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From ChrisG
Wednesday, February 04, 2004, 20:41

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When I lived with them Rose told me that Feli was her daughter, but not Jay's (obviously). If she isn't Rose's, it's news to me. (reply to this comment

From Nancy
Monday, February 02, 2004, 09:22

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Do you have a last name for them? Is her's still Salavar? How does one get in touch with you?(reply to this comment
From Names
Monday, February 02, 2004, 11:46

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Philip Sloan (Jay) Cynthia Salazar (Rose)(reply to this comment
From Nancy
Monday, February 02, 2004, 13:25

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Oh fun, fun, fun!!! Now we can look them up and have a forgiveness session. Beauty for ashes! Or beauty for their ashes!(reply to this comment
From Albatross
Monday, February 02, 2004, 13:41

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From 2000 FCF 990 Tax form

Page 15: http://167.10.5.131/Ct0501_0600/0582/1SWRA9E.PDF

From The Heart: Cynthia Salazar & Phillip Sloan. 3842 Palm Drive, Bonita CA, 91902(reply to this comment

From Nancy
Monday, February 02, 2004, 14:26

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I just skimmed the Form 990. On page 33 of 43 the list:

"Missionary Support for Missions Providing: Services to Youth at Risk

From the Heart

Cynthia Salazar & Phillip Slown

3842 Palm Drive

Bonita, CA 91902"

That is unbelievable, to think a known sexual predator and a child abuser would be running any "services" for youth! Those youth are more at risk of being abused by Salazar and Slown. I have personal first hand knowledge of Salazar's abuse of children as young as one year old. I personally witnessed the black and blue bruises on young toddlers inflicted by her. I heard their screams coming from the bathroom. I also witnessed Salazar's daughter Angela following in her mother's shoes and abusing toddlers in her care when she was just 12 years old. Angela was under Salazar's supervision, so Salazar is ultimately responsible. I witnessed Salazar abusing a young girl with Turners Syndrome, a genetic disorder, not to mention neglecting her medical care by denying her medication. I would personally testify in any court of law as to the evidence I possess of Salazar's abuse of children and teenagers. She personally abused me.

Now, as to Slown, doesn't Megan's Law apply here? Don't the authorities need to be notified that a known sexual abuser is living in the area, much less running some sham of a youth program? I cannot think of two more guilty people of whom I have personal knowledge of their crimes than these two characters. They've abused scores of children in multiple countries. Where is the email address of the man at the CFC who I spoke with? I'll personally supply him with an affidavit of my knowledge of these two individuals receiving money through the FCF.

Those who have first hand personal knowledge of other child abusers and sexual predators in the Family, should have a look at this Form 990 and see if those individuals are listed and email that man I spoke with in the CFC. No matter how long ago it was, these individuals do not have clean hands and should not be receiving federal funds or working with children.

While we’re discussing it, does anyone know the real names of a couple called Lovelight and Aaron? They lived in Texas around 1986-1987 then they moved to Japan. They had a son named Jonathon who was eight years old when they were in Texas. Now, those two were child abusers. Lovelight liked to fill the mouth of a year and a half old toddler with hot sauce and make him stand in a corner for more than an hour. When he screamed in pain she would haul him off to the bathroom and spank him until his little legs, backside and back were black and blue. It was pitiful! I was only 13, but I was affected every time it happened, which was numerous times over a five month period. The toddler’s mother had just left the Family. He had seven siblings, including a teenage girl who was 13 years old and named Amanda. The family, of whom Lovelight abused nearly every child member, later moved to Greece with their father. Their father was often on the road, so he didn’t see a lot of the most horrific abuse. It was at Lovelight and Aaron’s direction that I was beaten for more than an hour. Afterwards, the bed in their room was turned over as I fought back. They beat me with a metal fly-swatter. The blood vessels in my arms were broken from fighting. From my knees to my back I had black, blue and red marks. There wasn’t a half inch area on my thighs or lower back which was normal skin color and not bruised. I had a two inch cut across my thigh where the metal cut my leg. I still have the scar. I even had some marks across my face. When a woman who had been visiting the home came by a week or so later, she saw some of the bruises when my long shorts slipped up as I sat down on the floor. She was horrified and asked me what happened. I told her I fell off a chair. She knew I was lying, but I didn’t know what else to say. This was only the first time this happened to me, and it was due to me having told Lovelight and Aaron’s son to “butt out” when he wanted to start an argument over a conversation I had with another kid. Yes, ladies and gentlemen, those are the cold hard unexaggerated facts. I’ve recounted them before, as no matter how much time passes, they do not change in the least. They can never be undone. What does Zerby and her crew call these facts? “Mistakes”? “Harsh discipline”? We call it torture and child abuse here in the West. I wonder if the “mistake” defense would hold up in a murder or rape trial?

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From 2121
Tuesday, May 06, 2008, 13:11

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I have some very recent information about both Cindy and Phil--as recent as 2008. Cindy is my big sister and when I read these really troubling comments about her I can only say how she was exactly like that as a teenager around her younger siblings. They are currenly living in Graham, Washington and have moved back to be next to our parents. They have caused an incredible amount of disruption and confusion in our family. The stories I could tell about their lieing and cheating and manipulation seem to point out that they haven't changed a bit. They are smoooooth scam artists and crooks. If anyone is really looking for them I would galdly give them a current address.(reply to this comment

From lacy
Thursday, April 29, 2004, 11:05

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Yes, I lived with Aaron and Lovelight in PR. And you are right on about them. Lovelight always "applied" for the toddler position and acted all wonderful with the shepherds and then would have the strangest ways of taking care of the kids. She was scheduled to take the todds right after me in the morn so I could go to Word time and I still remember the looks in their little eyes when they would see her coming! Total fear. They would start crying whenever they would see her and beg me to stay. We used to laugh that she was so ugly (and hairy) that the todds were scared! But I knew it was more then that. She was using corporal punishment on 1 1/2 year olds. Very sad. Aaron was also a bit strange as was their son.(reply to this comment

From lacy
Thursday, April 29, 2004, 11:05

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Yes, I lived with Aaron and Lovelight in PR. And you are right on about them. Lovelight always "applied" for the toddler position and acted all wonderful with the shepherds and then would have the strangest ways of taking care of the kids. She was scheduled to take the todds right after me in the morn so I could go to Word time and I still remember the looks in their little eyes when they would see her coming! Total fear. They would start crying whenever they would see her and beg me to stay. We used to laugh that she was so ugly (and hairy) that the todds were scared! But I knew it was more then that. She was using corporal punishment on 1 1/2 year olds. Very sad. Aaron was also a bit strange as was their son.(reply to this comment

From Havoc
Monday, February 02, 2004, 18:52

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okay that address there has got to be wrong, that is the address they lived at, and moved from about 2 years ago. i'm pretty sure they are living in san fransico now, but yeah, (reply to this comment
From PI
Monday, February 02, 2004, 19:19

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Well, the address is from the 2000 form. We can work together to keep tabs on these people.(reply to this comment
From Oxys and Morons
Monday, February 02, 2004, 13:57

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Interestingly, they provide "services to youth at risk!"(reply to this comment
From afflick
Tuesday, January 27, 2004, 18:36

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Jay has already been identified as a child molester on this site, and even has had litigation brought against him in the past by an ex-member who used to be his step-daughter,(reply to this comment
From jack_wyn
Friday, July 01, 2005, 11:50

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I KNOW WHERE THEY ARE AND HOW ANYONE CAN FIND THEM.... JUST LET ME KNOW(reply to this comment

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