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Getting Through : Dealing
a schematised view of leaving ( before/during/after ) | from alicespiteandmalice - Sunday, April 24, 2005 accessed 1380 times An attempt at schematising the before and after of cult life ( for SGA's ). I drew this schema while I was working ( behind my bar ), and although it was initially meant to be an attempt at a new form of poetry, I thought it might be interesting to put it up here and see what other ex-SGA's think about it. It’s based partly on my experience, partly on my observation of others and what I’ve read on this site. The stages that are in bold can be permanent ( example: one can be in Denial one’s whole life ), whereas the others are temporary. I, for one, am somewhere between Distress and Denial ( for now ). Thanks for the feedback, alice ( I hesitated on whether to put this in Creative Writing or Dealing, and opted for the latter because I believe that was my ulterior motive in writing it. ) |
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Reader's comments on this article Add a new comment on this article | from analysis of variance Tuesday, April 26, 2005 - 13:22 (Agree/Disagree?) Poetry? In my line of work, we call this a structural equation model. We devise scales to correspond to each construct (level of ignorance might be viewed as the dependent variable and measured by the Irrational Values Scale, a 9-item likert). After careful measurement of independent variables corresponding to other the constructs (absence of doubt might be captured by a proxy like the 7-item Self-Righteousness Scale), we load results into an SEM procedure using software like SPSS and generate co-efficients for the lines. Significant co-efficients between moderating variables illustrate interaction effects, so that we can predict how much ignorance is explained by the interaction between deconstruction, escapism, denial and doubt. (reply to this comment)
| From alicespiteandmalice Tuesday, April 26, 2005, 20:39 (Agree/Disagree?) wow, I must admit that before your post I am reminded of my ignorance ( not in the above sense of the word )... I'm afraid I don't quite understand alot of what your saying, but you seem to be alot more knowledgeable than I in this domain. Why poetry? Simply because that is what I had in mind as I was writing it. If you're interested, I scanned the original ( handwritten à main levée on a scrap of Camel paper ), proof that this is far from having come out of a machine. thanks for your post, alice (reply to this comment) |
| | from Christian Monday, April 25, 2005 - 22:05 (Agree/Disagree?) Ok guys really you already left do you have to muse over these things really get over it. (reply to this comment)
| | | from xolox Monday, April 25, 2005 - 21:00 (Agree/Disagree?) I think the arrow from doubt to distress should be a two way. Good job! (reply to this comment)
| | | | | | | from Phoenixkidd Monday, April 25, 2005 - 19:24 (Agree/Disagree?) That is so true! Your Diagram almost fits things to a T. I believe a lot of people, myself included, go through Doubt and then complete Denial for a long period following the seperation from the cult. However, especially those of us who spent 20+ years in the cult and especially those of the older SGA's have had so much of our thinking and values molded by the cults way, it turns out to be very difficult for us to discount our entire lives in the cult as though it never happened. I sincerely believe only through recognition we can truly recover from our past. After all there are many cases of neglected and abused children in many sectors of society or throughout turmoil in war. Those children have to face up to the fact that their lives are not normal their resources, are severly lacking in education and background and must just move on. Having Ricky's memorial broadcasted on any kind of media brings to light these issues of ex-cult members that so many people are so unfamiliar with. (reply to this comment)
| from alicespiteandmalice Sunday, April 24, 2005 - 12:29 (Agree/Disagree?) oops, somehow the image isn't on... (reply to this comment)
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